
Pacific Couples Blog

Emotional Realities Part 5: Practice and Integration
Three practices to help you build clarity, reduce reactivity, and stay connected.

Emotional Realities Part 4: Two Realities
Why sharing a moment doesn’t mean sharing a reality.

Emotional Realities Part 3: Feeling is Believing
How to step outside your emotional story and see clearly again.

Emotional Realities Part 2: Affective Realism
How feelings drive our perceptions—and why it’s so convincing.


Communication in Marriage Part 3: How to Dissolve a Negative State of Mind
How to dissolve a bad feeling, a bad mood, anger, anxiety, depression – you name it.

Communication in Marriage Part 2: Feeling is Believing
How we feel is what determines the reality we experience, not the other way around.

Communication in Marriage Part 1: How to Talk about Your Feelings
To solve the real problem, we have to start with the deeper issue: misunderstood, mismanaged, and miscommunicated feelings.