Pacific Couples Blog
Couples that savor together, stay together.
The stress finding is the most interesting result.
The Housework Gap Is Converging, But It May Never Close
The gap persists because of the structural forces shaping it.
When you pick a partner, you pick a set of problems.
Most relationships don’t fail because people chose badly.
There are a lot of scholars in the hell realms.
Something one of my Buddhist friends used to say when we got too intellectual.
Can This Relationship Be Saved?
There’s no universal answer, but there are better ways to ask the question.
Subtle dynamics that can look like therapist bias.
Several commenters pushed this idea further.
March Reading Roundup
Emotional narratives, gender myths, and the hidden rules of modern relationships.
Is Couples Therapy Biased Against Men?
But by the time I’d gotten a half-dozen like that, I started to wonder if I was missing something.
The Myth of Rationality
We may think of ourselves as primarily rational, but that’s not what the science shows.