Pacific Couples Blog
Couples that savor together, stay together.
The stress finding is the most interesting result.
When you pick a partner, you pick a set of problems.
Most relationships don’t fail because people chose badly.
There are a lot of scholars in the hell realms.
Something one of my Buddhist friends used to say when we got too intellectual.
Subtle dynamics that can look like therapist bias.
Several commenters pushed this idea further.
The Myth of Rationality
We may think of ourselves as primarily rational, but that’s not what the science shows.
Substack’s Safety Debate is Really about Something Deeper
Substack isn’t a newsletter anymore.

