
Pacific Couples Blog

How to Stress-Proof Your Relationship This Holiday Season
Create a holiday season full of connection, not tension.

Combining the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy
Here is a brief analysis of how I see these two approaches working together.

Four Communication Behaviors That Can Kill Your Marriage
How to identify and eliminate the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.

How to Compromise Like a Pro
Compromise means identifying your core needs, not giving them up.

Transforming Conflict into Connection: The Power of Repair
Successful repair attempts can prevent conflicts from escalating, foster emotional connection, and build resilience in a relationship.

How to Solve Unsolvable Relationship Problems
In the Gottman world, we say “when you pick a partner, you pick a set of problems.”

Can this Marriage be Saved?
How do I know if saving this relationship is worth the effort?


Is Relationship Coaching Worth It?
What is a relationship coach, how much do they cost, and are they worth the money?