
Pacific Couples Blog

What to Do about Unsolvable Relationship Problems
According to the Gottman Institute, sixty-nine percent of relationship conflict is caused by unsolvable problems, problems that are fundamental to the couple and are never going to go away.

Is Relationship Coaching Worth It?
What is a relationship coach, how much do they cost, and are they worth the money?

Signs of a Healthy Relationship: The Sound Relationship House
The Sound Relationship House provides couples with a comprehensive framework for building and maintaining a healthy, fulfilling partnership.

Empirically Supported Marital and Couples Therapies
What are the main empirically supported couples therapies and how do they work?

Communication in Marriage Part 3: How to Dissolve a Negative State of Mind
How to dissolve a bad feeling, a bad mood, anger, anxiety, depression – you name it.

Communication in Marriage Part 2: Feeling is Believing
How we feel is what determines the reality we experience, not the other way around.

Communication in Marriage Part 1: How to Talk about Your Feelings
To solve the real problem, we have to start with the deeper issue: misunderstood, mismanaged, and miscommunicated feelings.