
Pacific Couples Blog




Emotional Realities Part 5: Practice and Integration
Three practices to help you build clarity, reduce reactivity, and stay connected.

Emotional Realities Part 4: Two Realities
Why sharing a moment doesn’t mean sharing a reality.

Emotional Realities Part 3: Feeling is Believing
How to step outside your emotional story and see clearly again.

Emotional Realities Part 2: Affective Realism
How feelings drive our perceptions—and why it’s so convincing.


You’re Not Losing, Bruh—You’re Listening
Accepting influence: the relationship power move you haven’t tried.






Don’t Let Emotional Flooding Swamp Your Conversations
Keep calm and carry on. If you can’t, take a break.

Valentine’s Day: A Straightforward Guide to Showing Up
Because ignoring it probably won’t work.

You’re Arguing All Wrong
How the Gottman-Rapoport procedure transforms conflict into connection.